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The Abhishek Bachchan-Aishwarya Rai wedding opens a door into
Bollywoods journey into matrimonial harmonies and disharmonies
among starry marriages in the past. TWF correspondent Shoma
A. Chatterji goes down memory lane to unfold little known stories
of starry love
Marriages are made in heaven. True. But
they have to be lived on earth. Its sunny days and wintry weathers,
nights of storm and rain see some marriages sail through. Some
do not. Marriages between stars of tinsel town happen when they
are paired in several films, fall in love and tie the knot.
Do they live happily ever after? Or do some of these break under
the pressures of real life contrary to the synthetic fairy tales
they live out on screen? These marriages are forever treading
on dangerous ground, as the partners have to suppress their
gigantic star egos when they become husband and wife.
When Dev Anand proposed marriage to Suraiya, a few years older
than Dev, they planned to elope. But Suraiya had a domineering
grandmother. She developed cold feet in the last minute and
ditched the handsome young man. She remained single throughout
her life. Dev Anand met and married Kalpana Kartik during the
shooting of Taxi Driver. Kalpana retreated from films, to mother
two children and was hardly seen or heard of again. When asked
whether his marriage to Kalpana failed, the octogenarian heartthrob
smiles and asks, We still share the same roof, dont
we? We are still married to each other, arent we?
and cleverly evades a definite answer. We do not anything about
Kalpana.
Prem Nath married Bina Rai amidst great fanfare and loud music.
Bina Rai gave up films. How happy were they? Not quite what
with Prem Naths violent temper and mood swings that led
to a disastrous relationship with his own son Prem Kishen. Bina
Rai, we hear, turned into a mental case and though they lived
under the same roof, she never faced the public ever again.
Few are aware that Naseem Banu, mother of Saira Banu, persuaded
Dilip Kumar to marry his daughter through a midnight telephone
call followed by emergency meetings. The story goes that after
having starred in several blockbusters with Jubilee Star Rajendra
Kumar, the two fell madly in love and had reportedly decided
to tie the knot. But Rajendra Kumar was already a married man
with kids. Something had to be done. Enter Dilip Kumar who saved
a family from breaking up. Saira Banu was overwhelmed with the
proposal and forgot all about her love. Not many years later,
her husband was embroiled in a scandal with a Hyderabadi beauty,
Asma. Dilip Kumar denied all ties with Asma and he being locked
in a Hyderabad hotel. Asma walked out of his life after a handsome
payoff it was alleged.
Shammi Kapoor, childhood sweetheart of actress Nutan, married
Geeta Bali who was older. But the marriage turned out to be
happy till Geeta Bali suddenly died of small pox because she
had never been vaccinated. He later married the princess of
Bhawnagar. Film scribes yelled blue murder when they heard of
Sunil Dutt marrying Nargis. The outrage was because Sunil had
played Nargis son in Mother India. It was difficult to
accept even a screen son marrying his screen mother in real
life. They stuck their thumbs at every critic, remaining married
for many years and producing three children till Nargis died
of cancer when her sons maiden film was released. Priya
Dutts documentary Nargis suggests a persistent tiff between
Dutt and Nargis about the mothers indulgence having led
to the sons drug addiction. Sanjay Dutts own marriage
to another starlet ended on the rocks when the expatriate lady
returned to her parents in the US and died of chronic brain
tumour. His second marriage to Rhea Pillai also broke up.
Raj Kapoors son Randhir Kapoors marriage to actress
Babita turned out to be a love affair turned sour. No one knows
why the marriage broke up though many point an accusing finger
at Randhirs love for the bottle. His younger brother Rishi
married Neetu Singh and like the Kapoor tradition, Neetu left
films. Though they are together, there are stories of Rishis
drinking leading to violent scenes between husband and wife.
Rajesh Khanna married Dimple Kapadia while she was still shooting
for her maiden film Bobby. It was a fairy tale marriage of sorts.
But soon after the two girls, Twinkle and Rinke were born, Dimple
walked out of the Khanna household accusing Rajesh of violent
behaviour. Interestingly, neither Rajesh nor Dimple bothered
to marry again. Saif Ali Khans marriage to Amrita Singh
broke up after he met the Italian Rosa. Raj Babbar walked out
of his marriage to Nadira to live together with Smita Patil.
When Smita died, he promptly went back to Nadira and the children.
Southern actresses have a penchant for married men. Examples
are many Hema Malini leads the list followed by Jayapradha
and Sridevi. Vyjayantimala also chose a married man though he
was not in films. Among all star marriages, Amitabh Bachchan
and Jaya Bhaduris marriage stands like a solid rock despite
the rise and fall of the Big B time and again, the life-threatening
accident, and a certain lady called Rekha.
Todays children are politically correct. Akshay Kumar
and Twinkle Khanna, Ajay Devgun and Kajol keep up a good public
image, unlike Amir Khan who could not rescue his long-time marriage
to the non-film Rina. Let us see how Abhishek Bachchan and Aishwarya
Rai handle their chemistry in real life.
(Shoma A. Chatterji is a national award winner for film criticism.
The opinion in the story is of the writer) |
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