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Considering the way political leaders in some states, including
Union Railway Minister Lalu Prasad Yadav, are up in arms against
introduction of sex education in schools, it would seem that
examples of birds and bees should still be cited to explain
'how a baby is made.' Some of them, of course, have ignored
the hum do, hamara do slogan of the government blatantly. Any
which way, it's absolutely hypocritical to advocate a 'no-sex-education
-please-we-are- Indian' kind of slogan instead. Perhaps they
think that teenagers in our good old 'family-oriented society'
don't have anything to do with sex. Or that rising teenage pregnancy
is something that happens only in the UK.
Ignorance about the body, sexual health and reproductive
rights among girls worry healthcare providers and sociologists
greatly. Add to that the high incidence of HIV/AIDS cases
in India having around 2.47 million HIV positive people, and
where knowledge of safe sex plays an important role in prevention
, sex education among teenagers is definitely a necessity.
But where do our adolescents go for correct information?
Girls often complain that they cannot ask questions when they
attain puberty, because Ma or mashi would be scandalised.
Teenage boys often sneak-off to cyber cafes to surf porno
sites as their curiosity of the female body increases at this
age. Those who think that their good old betas are there to
consult 'study material' at these cafes are ostriches of the
first order. Worse, young adolescents may even visit red light
areas to assuage their curiosity . Sometime ago, the police
in Kolkata found evidence that some school boys had taken
French leave to do just that.
Yet, our leaders, and some self-appointed moral guardians
of the society, cry hoarse every time sex education is mentioned
as if telling adolescents the facts of life would lead to
sexual orgies. In telling contrast, a survey done by a leading
newspaper recently found that 68 per cent of those interviewed
supported it and most support (47 per cent)classroom lessons.
And 72 per cent respondents in five metros believe that the
kids today have patchy perception about sex.
True, the classes and materials have to be prepared sensitively
keeping in mind cultural sensibilities. The teachers too sometimes
need more training than the students. These nuts and bolts
can be worked at through discussions. But to brush off sex
education as un- Indian is laughable and dangerous too for
the health of the future generations.
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