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   To kiss or not to kiss

 

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Why are we so busy these days, that includes the media, with non-issues like a peck on the cheek of a celebrity? Yes, the Richard Gere, Shilpa Shetty episode has been flogged to death on print and electronic media, but it needs to be examined from another angle. While competing to catch the eyeballs of the ever-restless reader/audience with generous splashes of glam-sham, not to forget people with a hobby of filing frivolous cases in the court hogging the limelight, the main area of concern was swept under the carpet of oblivion. It was, after all, a performance (where Gere innocently tried to enact a scene from his and Jennifer Lopez starrer Shall We Dance?) at a meet to disseminate information on safe sex to truck drivers. With an estimated 5.7 million HIV infected people in the country, India ranks second in the world next to South Africa in the AIDS map. Sex workers are generally considered a high-risk group for contacting the disease. Truck drivers on the country's National Highways are often on the road for weeks, away from home and hearth and many of them patronise sex workers who operate around the highways. So educating them on the risk of unprotected sex is important. But lo, as Shilpa Big Brother Shetty and Pretty Woman hero Richard Gere hogged the unintentional limelight, the endless debates on the "the kiss" continued, opinion polls in the media seemed like an pre-election straw poll, but there was hardly any report on truck drivers vis-à-vis HIV/AIDS. It was as if they were incidental to the whole circus.

Besides, when have we become so paranoid about a peck on the cheek? Even when Shabana Azmi, a known activist besides being first-rate actress, gave a peck- a 'freedom kiss'- on octogenarian and freedom fighter Nelson Mandela's cheek in South Africa, there was a great hullabaloo. Apparently, the moralists who have taken the mantle of protecting the great Indian culture, it was insult. For crying out loud!

Ditto for sex education. In a country when even now Helplines meant for young people to answer questions on sexual misconceptions are flooded with questions like, 'can kissing leads to pregnancy?' and girls complain 'nobody talks to us about sex in the family' the attempt to introduce sex education in higher classes in schools has taken a beating in states like Maharashtra, for being 'obscene'. Incidentally, the state has one of the highest cases of HIV/AIDS in the country.

Moral policing has now worryingly spread its tentacles to all fields. The latest being the suspension of Shivaji Panikkar, dean of Sayajirao University in Vadodara because he did not close down an exhibition of a post graduate student at the instruction of the university authorities. The artist, Chandra Mohan, who happens to be the son of a poor carpenter family down south, has been arrested. His fault? He purportedly hurt the religious sentiments of the people by projecting deities in an obscene manner. Even a Christian group joined the vandals in the campus for hurting them by putting Jesus in an "obscene posture." Meanwhile, M.F. Husain has been living in self-imposed exile almost for a year now because society's so called guardians have accused him of moral turpitude. At this rate we will soon have to cover all the temple carving at Khajuraho and Konark, ban all those love songs in our ancient scriptures and paintings. Or perhaps these are uncomfortable areas the rising intolerant voice wants to avoid. Much easier to target those around.

 

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